Despite his new family, and the welcoming community of Evansville, Jason "realized that their pace of life was really slow." He knew that he would have to move on.
"To be
professionally successful I have to go to a bigger place. The life in China is
surprisingly fast. You have no time to enjoy life, but just to work hard to
achieve your goals. So I didn’t forget
my dream of going to a big college.”
Jason applied around—not too far away, as he wanted to be near
his American host family. They were bummed by his new plans...as was the school administration.
“People in Evansville really didn’t want me to go. Seriously,
I was one of the only two Chinese people there.”
"The head of the International Office came to me and said, ‘You can either be a big fish in a small pond or small fish in a big pond.’
"I said that analogy didn’t work for me at all. ‘I want to be a big fish in a big pond.’"
While there was lots of pressure for Jason to stay put, he did receive some support.
"One of the Malaysian ladies in the International Office
said to him one day, 'Jason, you really don’t belong here. You should go to
bigger places.'"
Sophomore year, Jason transferred to Purdue.
A Big Fish in a Big Pond: At Purdue |
“It’s kind of sad when you think about it. The thing that drives you to go to these
places also drives the family apart.”
(To be continued. Next: Graduation shock--Open Job Fairs, Closed Company Doors.)
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