While Liu came to the U.S. to study, he had no intention of
staying. “We always thought we would come back to China.” Liu had married his
high school sweetheart who also came to the U.S. to get her doctoral degree,
and they had their whole future carefully mapped out.
“Our plan was very simple: she’d get her Ph.D., (we’d) have
kids, travel in Europe, go back.”
But then after Liu got his Ph.D., he was offered a position
at Carnegie-Melon University. There was a gap of four months before that job
began, so he and his wife managed to travel and work in Holland for that
period, and check one item off their future plans’ list.
Liu learned a great deal in Holland, but two points in
particular.
“When I was in Holland, one thing that really surprised me
is that their social welfare system is a lot better than both U.S. and China.
“I said (to my professor), ‘It doesn’t make sense. People
get laid off and receive more than the minimum wage. In this case, many people
would rather stay home and receive benefits.’
He made a comment which surprised me and which I always remember: ‘Part
of human nature is that they want to work. They want to feel they are
contributing to society. They want to be respected. They’re out of a job not
because they don’t want to work, but because there isn’t an opportunity that
matches their skill.’ That is a positive way of seeing people that really
shaped me to see things.”
Liu also noted that people took a lot of breaks—morning tea
break, lunch break, afternoon tea. As someone concerned about efficiency, this
worried him.
“I always worried if they would get my job done. After two
days, I’d ask, ‘What is the progress?’
“They’d say, ‘Don’t worry about it.’
“But I’d still worry. Then another two days, I went back.
The man really get unhappy.
“He says, ‘You know since I commit to you, you’ve got to
trust me.’
“This is one thing I learned: how to respect the people,
particularly for the people who are capable, you’ve got to leave them alone.
The life would be better for both parts.
“These are the two big events that helped me to see. These
are things I wouldn’t see in China.”
(To Be Continued. Next: Tiananmen Massacre Puts A Halt to Plans.)
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