Husband Peter fled from China for different reasons. His parents were part of the Nationalist Army that fought against the Japanese from 1937-45 and then the Communists from 1945-49. (See post three.) While Peter was safe from Communism, he realized upon college graduation that there weren't many job opportunities. Fortunately, he got a scholarship at the University of Texas. (See post four.) Meanwhile, Nancy struggled in Hong Kong. Her mother enrolled her in a Cantonese/English high school, two languages Nancy did not understand. Nancy only lasted three days. (See post five.)
Hong Kong Baptist University, established in 1953 as Hong Kong College with support of American Baptists. |
Instead Nancy's mother put her in Hong Kong Baptist College.
After a year, through Nancy's Baptist preacher grandfather’s connection, she was given a full scholarship to study at
Southwestern University in Georgetown, Texas.
Her mother scrounged together enough money to buy her a one-way ticket
on a steamship to San Francisco. Nancy remembered three things--being seasick for nineteen days, seeing a black man for the first time, and not knowing a word of English. She couldn’t even
understand polite inquiries like, “Have you seen the campus?”
“They thought I was a very quiet, reserved girl,” said
Nancy.
“Far from it,” Peter interjected.
“Not knowing that I love talking.” She laughed. “But I just
couldn’t talk cause I didn’t know the language.”
Nancy had three American roommates. “They taught me English,
corrected my pronunciation. And six months later, I was pretty fluent.”
Still, Nancy remembers being very
homesick.
“I had no way to get back,” she said. “When I landed here, in my pocket there was $26, and that was all. It was a good thing….otherwise I would have just gone home.”
“I had no way to get back,” she said. “When I landed here, in my pocket there was $26, and that was all. It was a good thing….otherwise I would have just gone home.”
“In a way, I should thank Mao Tse Tung," she said. "He forced me out. Sometimes fate really changes you.”
(To be continued. Next: Searching for a Job in the Yellow Pages.)