Husband Peter fled from China for different reasons. His parents were part of the Nationalist Army that fought against the Japanese from 1937-45 and then the Communists from 1945-49. (See post three.) While Peter was safe from Communism, he realized upon college graduation that there weren't many job opportunities. Fortunately, he got a scholarship at the University of Texas. (See post four.) Meanwhile, Nancy struggled in Hong Kong. Her mother enrolled her in a Cantonese/English high school, two languages Nancy did not understand. Nancy only lasted three days. (See post five.)
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Hong Kong Baptist University, established in 1953 as Hong Kong College with support of American Baptists. |
Instead Nancy's mother put her in Hong Kong Baptist College.
After a year, through Nancy's Baptist preacher grandfather’s connection, she was given a full scholarship to study at
Southwestern University in Georgetown, Texas.
Her mother scrounged together enough money to buy her a one-way ticket
on a steamship to San Francisco. Nancy remembered three things--being seasick for nineteen days, seeing a black man for the first time, and not knowing a word of English. She couldn’t even
understand polite inquiries like, “Have you seen the campus?”
“They thought I was a very quiet, reserved girl,” said
Nancy.
“Far from it,” Peter interjected.
“Not knowing that I love talking.” She laughed. “But I just
couldn’t talk cause I didn’t know the language.”
Nancy had three American roommates. “They taught me English,
corrected my pronunciation. And six months later, I was pretty fluent.”
Still, Nancy remembers being very
homesick.
“I had no way to get back,” she said. “When I landed here, in my pocket there was $26, and that was all. It was a good thing….otherwise I would have just gone home.”
“I had no way to get back,” she said. “When I landed here, in my pocket there was $26, and that was all. It was a good thing….otherwise I would have just gone home.”
“In a way, I should thank Mao Tse Tung," she said. "He forced me out. Sometimes fate really changes you.”
(To be continued. Next: Searching for a Job in the Yellow Pages.)